| The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. | |
| ― Friedrich Nietzsche | |
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July 23, 2015 by kmabarrett
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I believe too much focus on myself has often lead to greater struggle and suffering. When I focus my efforts and energy on creating and maintaining relationships and communities that share similar priorities, values, ethics, and goals, I often find the struggle and suffering is replaced by love, kindness, and a sense of connectedness that brings me great joy. Blogging is one such community for me.
Hi Russ!
I agree with you about 40+/60- on this one. I think only the “privilege of owning” myself (oneself) allows me (us?) to give of oneself freely and without expectation. If love isn’t returned, it’s not meant to be, but that does not stop me from taking the risk to give it freely. There is an expression I try to live by: “I am third.” It doesn’t mean I love (or value) myself less, even when I place others ahead of me. Leaders (and frequently fathers) eat last. Having said this, I can see how narcissism can cause problems. I just don’t think you have that particular problem. 🙂
As always, thanks for the visit and the comment!
Kevin